Hello my Elentities, it is #HonestlyElda time – relationship version!!!
Being in a relationship or even being out of one can be difficult. This week on #HonestlyElda I am going to be answer three relationship questions. Let’s just dive right into the juiciness!!
How do you tell who is the person at fault when your relationship is in trouble?
The answer is simple. Both of you. If you two love each other, you do not need someone to blame for your problems to work things out. Sometimes it is easier to point fingers and make one person feel like they are to blame. But I can assure you, it does not make things easier. Accepting that it is both your faults if something is not working out, makes working things out so much easier. You are both at fault when things are going wrong. There is always something both sides are either doing too much or doing too little. It is important to always hear out your boyfriend/girlfriend’s side of the story. There are two of you in the relationship. Two of you willing to risk everything for each other. You both need to sit down and hear each other out and try to compromise.
What do you think the biggest problem in relationships nowadays is?
This question is difficult to answer because there are hundreds of problems people face nowadays that are causing a strain on their relationship. However, I think the biggest problem now and maybe forever is the lack of communication in relationships. People choose to turn to social media to pour out their feelings and troubles. They choose to turn to their friends and gossip about it. Instead of speaking to their significant other about the way they are feeling, they are discussing it with everyone else. That will not help either parties of the relationship feel any better. The only way to make a relationship work is to constantly communicate everything. Full disclosure.
Everyone is guilty of this. Even me. I know it is a huge issue in relationships, but I also know what it is like being stuck in the position of not wanting to say anything. Sometimes you feel like you can just brush your issue you are having off, instead of bringing it up and potentially causing problems. Always communicate – it may cause tension temporarily but it gives you both a chance to fix things so there are no further similar complications.
Is it possible to ever build trust after losing it in a relationship?
The answer to this question is different with every couple. It depends on how the trust was broken and how each person feels. Even if you are willing to work on things, there are going to be negative feelings and doubt about the other for a while. It is difficult to overcome a situation where trust is lost unfortunately. Trust is not something easily built and rebuilding it after it is lost is even more difficult.
Fortunately, building trust is possible. Both partners would have to be willing to give it their 100% so they properly heal and move past this obstacle. It is definitely a difficult situation to surpass, but it is possible and if you two love each other…there is nothing that you can not surpass together. Just make sure it is worth rebuilding before you put your efforts into it.
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